但你看起来很幸福：婚姻，片段和片段（有声读物）

2021 | English | B08TX61XYZ | MP3 64 kbps | 7 hours and 10 minutes | 198 MB

In this tender, funny, and sharp companion to her acclaimed memoir-in-essays Amateur Hour, Kimberly Harrington explores and confronts marriage, divorce, and the ways love, loss, and longing shape a life.

Six weeks after Kimberly and her husband announced their divorce, she began work on a book that she thought would only be about divorce - heavy on the dark humor with a light coating of anger and annoyance. After all, on the heels of planning to dissolve a 20-year marriage they had chosen to still live together in the same house with their kids. Throw in a global pandemic and her idea of what the end of a marriage should look and feel like was flipped even further on its head.

This originally dark and caustic exploration turned into a more empathetic exercise, as she worked to understand what this relationship meant and why marriage matters so much. Over the course of two years of what was supposed to be a temporary period of transition, she sifted through her past - how she formed her ideas about relationships, sex, marriage, and divorce. And she dug back into the history of her marriage - how she and her future ex-husband had met, what it felt like to be madly in love, how they had changed over time, the impact having children had on their relationship, and what they still owed one another.

But You Seemed So Happy is a time capsule of sorts. It’s about getting older and repeatedly dying on the hill of being wiser, only to discover you were never all that dumb to begin with. It’s an honest, intimate biography of a marriage, from its heady, idealistic, and easy beginnings to it slowly coming apart and finally to its evolution into something completely unexpected. As she probes what it means when everyone assumes you’re happy as long as you’re still married, Harrington skewers engagement photos, Gen X singularity, small-town busybodies, and the casual way we make life-altering decisions when we’re young. Ultimately, this moving and funny memoir in essays is a vulnerable and irreverent act of forgiveness - of ourselves, our partners, and the relationships that have run their course but will always hold profound and permanent meaning in our lives.

2021 |英语| B08TX61XYZ | MP3 64 kbps | 7小时10分钟| 198 MB在这本温柔、有趣、犀利的回忆录《业余时间》中，金伯利·哈灵顿探索并直面婚姻、离婚，以及爱、失去和渴望塑造生活的方式。 金伯利和丈夫宣布离婚六周后，她开始写一本她认为只会关于离婚的书——书中充斥着黑色幽默，略带愤怒和烦恼。毕竟，在计划解除20年的婚姻之后，他们选择继续和孩子住在同一所房子里。再加上全球疫情，她对婚姻结束应该是什么样子和感觉的想法被进一步颠覆了。 这种原本黑暗而刻薄的探索变成了一种更具同理心的练习，因为她努力理解这段关系意味着什么，以及为什么婚姻如此重要。在本应是暂时过渡期的两年里，她仔细审视了自己的过去——她是如何形成对人际关系、性、婚姻和离婚的看法的。她重新审视了自己的婚姻历史——她和未来的前夫是如何认识的，疯狂相爱的感觉是什么，他们随着时间的推移是如何变化的，生孩子对他们的关系有什么影响，以及他们仍然欠彼此什么。 但你看起来很快乐，就像一个时间胶囊。这是关于变老，在变得更聪明的山上反复死去，却发现你从一开始就不是那么愚蠢。这是一部诚实、亲密的婚姻传记，从令人兴奋、理想主义和轻松的开始，到慢慢破裂，最后演变成完全出乎意料的事情。当哈灵顿探讨当每个人都认为只要你还结婚，你就很幸福时，这意味着什么时，她列举了订婚照片、X世代的奇异性、小镇上的爱管闲事的人，以及我们年轻时做出改变生活的决定的随意方式。最终，这本感人而有趣的散文回忆录是一种脆弱而不敬的宽恕行为——对我们自己、我们的伴侣以及已经走完全程但将永远在我们的生活中具有深刻而永恒意义的关系。

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