一记耳光：为什么侮辱伤害-为什么他们不应该（有声读物）

2018 (2013) | English | B07FN1HF2R | M4B 64 kbps | 5 hours and 53 minutes | 162 MB

Insults are part of the fabric of daily life. But why do we insult each other? Why do insults cause us such pain? Can we do anything to prevent or lessen this pain? Most importantly, how can we overcome our inclination to insult others?

In A Slap in the Face, William Irvine undertakes a wide-ranging investigation of insults, their history, the role they play in social relationships, and the science behind them. He examines not just memorable zingers, such as Elizabeth Bowen's description of Aldous Huxley as "The stupid person's idea of a clever person", but subtle insults as well, such as when someone insults us by reporting the insulting things others have said about us: "I never read bad reviews about myself," wrote entertainer Oscar Levant, "because my best friends invariably tell me about them." Irvine also considers the role insults play in our society: They can be used to cement relations, as when a woman playfully teases her husband, or to enforce a social hierarchy, as when a boss publicly berates an employee.

He goes on to investigate the many ways society has tried to deal with insults - by adopting codes of politeness, for example, and outlawing hate speech - but concludes that the best way to deal with insults is to immunize ourselves against them: We need to transform ourselves in the manner recommended by Stoic philosophers. We should, more precisely, become insult pacifists, trying hard not to insult others and laughing off their attempts to insult us.

A rousing follow-up to A Guide to the Good Life, A Slap in the Face will interest anyone who's ever delivered an insult or felt the sting of one-in other words, everyone.

2018（2013）|英语| B07FN1HF2R | M4B 64 kbps | 5小时53分钟| 162 MB侮辱是日常生活的一部分。但我们为什么要互相侮辱呢？为什么侮辱会让我们如此痛苦？我们能做些什么来预防或减轻这种疼痛吗？最重要的是，我们如何克服侮辱他人的倾向？ 在《一记耳光》中，威廉·欧文对侮辱、侮辱的历史、侮辱在社会关系中的作用以及侮辱背后的科学进行了广泛的调查。他不仅研究了令人难忘的尖刻言辞，比如伊丽莎白·鲍恩（Elizabeth Bowen）对奥尔德斯·赫胥黎（Aldous Huxley）的描述是“愚蠢的人对聪明人的看法”，还研究了微妙的侮辱，比如当有人通过报道别人对我们的侮辱性言论来侮辱我们时：“我从来没有读过关于自己的负面评论，”艺人奥斯卡·莱万特（Oscar Levant）写道，“因为我最好的朋友总是告诉我这些评论。”欧文还考虑了侮辱在我们的社会中所起的作用：它们可以用来巩固关系，比如当一个女人开玩笑地取笑她的丈夫时，或者用来强化社会等级制度，比如当老板公开斥责员工时。 他继续研究了社会试图处理侮辱的多种方式，例如采用礼貌准则和禁止仇恨言论，但得出的结论是，处理侮辱的最佳方式是让自己免受侮辱：我们需要以斯多葛哲学家推荐的方式改变自己。更确切地说，我们应该成为侮辱和平主义者，努力不侮辱他人，嘲笑他们侮辱我们的企图。 《美好生活指南》的一部激动人心的续集《一记耳光》会让任何曾经受到侮辱或感到刺痛的人感兴趣——换句话说，每个人。

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