你的耻辱：如何在死亡时代成为一个女人[有声读物]

English | ASIN: B0CR4FX8K9 | 2024 | 10 hours and 00 minutes | M4B@64 kbps | 287 MB

A courageous, in-depth investigation into the modern epidemic of shame in our society—what it is, why women are uniquely susceptible, and how we can shift the shame off our plates and live our best lives in an over-exposed, image-obsessed world. For millions of women, shame is a vicious predator. It tells us we are less than, that we are unworthy. We try everything to escape shame—ignoring it, intellectualizing it, and even, ironically, shaming ourselves for feeling it. The reality is that women experience shame more frequently and more intensely than men—a direct result, as acclaimed journalist Melissa Petro explains, of a patriarchal culture that “urges women to feel bad about themselves, and then punishes them when they do.” Why can’t we figure out how to break the shame cycle once and for all? In Shame on You, Petro takes on the issue of women’s shame directly with an unflinching look at the social systems that encourage women to believe we are deeply inadequate. From shame’s beginnings (Maybe she’s born with it? Nope, it’s misogyny.) to its effect on our lives as adults (How the humiliation of “bad women” affects us all.), shame poisons our friendships, romantic relationships, and work lives. But it doesn’t have to be that way. Blending investigative reporting, science, literature, and hundreds of women’s personal stories—including her own shameful account of winding up as an unwitting New York Post cover girl—Petro offers us a new way forward. No matter what you do, she explains, there is no escaping being judged. And yet, the women we can become—sometimes as a consequence of shame, rather than in spite of it—are powerful indeed. And maybe that’s what others are afraid of.

中文|亚洲：B0CR4FX8K9|2024|10小时00分|M4B@64kbps | 287 MB对我们社会中现代羞耻流行的勇敢而深入的调查——它是什么，为什么女性特别容易受到伤害，以及我们如何在一个过度暴露、痴迷于形象的世界里摆脱羞耻，过上最好的生活。对于数百万女性来说，羞耻是一种恶毒的掠食者。它告诉我们不如，我们不配。我们想尽一切办法逃避羞耻——忽略它，理智化它，甚至讽刺的是，因为感觉到它而羞辱自己。现实是，女性比男性更频繁、更强烈地经历羞耻——正如著名记者梅丽莎·佩特罗解释的那样，这是父权文化的直接结果，这种文化“敦促女性对自己感到不好，然后在她们这样做的时候惩罚她们”。为什么我们不能想出如何一劳永逸地打破羞耻循环？在《你的耻辱》中，佩特罗直面女性的耻辱问题，毫不畏惧地审视了鼓励女性相信我们严重不足的社会制度。从羞耻的开始（也许她天生就有羞耻感？不，这是厌女症。）到它对我们成年后生活的影响（“坏女人”的羞辱如何影响我们所有人。），羞耻毒害了我们的友谊、浪漫关系和工作生活。但事情不必如此。Petro融合了调查性报道、科学、文学和数百个女性的个人故事，包括她自己作为《纽约邮报》封面女郎的可耻经历，为我们提供了一条新的前进道路。她解释说，无论你做什么，都难逃被评判。然而，我们可以成为的女性——有时是因为羞愧，而不是尽管羞愧——确实很强大。也许这就是其他人害怕的。

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