挑战幻想中的纽带：寻找个人身份与自由

English | 2022 | ISBN: 1433835819 | 327 pages | EPUB / PDF | 3.6 MB

This much-anticipated follow-up to the critically-acclaimed and bestselling The Fantasy Bond tackles the complex question of why so many of us are compelled to repeat the pain of our past while avoiding positive experiences that could enrich our lives.

Why are many of us compelled to repeat the pain of our past, while avoiding positive experiences that could enrich our lives? In this thought-provoking book, clinical psychologist and theorist Robert Firestone explains how the fantasy bond, an illusion of connection, develops early in childhood to cope with the pain and frustration resulting from parental misattunement, neglect or mistreatment. It is manifested as a destructive internal thought process, the critical inner voice. Later, the fantasy bond is extended to family members, intimate partners, and social groups. In Challenging the FantasyBond, Dr. Firestone presents his latest thoughts and observations about the self-defeating aspects of this process and places the original concepts in the broader context of his overall theoretical approach, Separation Theory.

Compelling case studies illustrate how the critical inner voice causes considerable pain and discomfort and interferes with intimacy. These case studies demonstrate how Voice Therapy, a cognitive/affective/behavioral methodology, can be used to counteract these destructive internal messages and help individuals embrace the present, instead of reliving the past. Challenging our illusions of a merged identity and moving toward separation and individuation are essential if we are to become fully autonomous human beings. This companion to a classic work is particularly timely in its identification of the existential fears that contribute to prejudice, political divisiveness and ethnic strife.

这本备受期待的《奇幻纽带》续作，是对广受好评和畅销书《奇幻纽带》中复杂问题的延续：为什么我们中有如此多的人被强迫重复过去的痛苦经历，同时又避开那些能够丰富我们生活经验的正面体验。 是什么原因让我们中的许多人被迫重复过去的痛苦经历，并且回避可能使我们的生活更加丰富的积极体验？在这本引人深思的书中，临床心理学家和理论家罗伯特·菲舍福解释了幻想纽带这一早期儿童期为应对父母不适当关注、忽视或虐待所带来的痛苦和挫折感而产生的幻觉是如何形成的。这种内化的破坏性思维过程表现为内心的批评声音。 随着幻想纽带延伸到家庭成员、亲密伴侣以及社会群体，菲舍福在《挑战幻想纽带》中提出了他对这一过程中自我毁灭方面的新思考，并将其置于他整体理论框架——分离理论的背景之下。 案例研究有力地说明了内心的声音如何造成极大的痛苦和不适，并妨碍人际间的亲密关系。这些案例展示了语音疗法（一种认知/情绪/行为方法）是如何用来对抗这种破坏性的内部信息，帮助个体拥抱现在而非沉溺于过去。若想成为完全自主的人类，我们必须挑战自己对融合身份的幻觉并迈向分离与个体化的过程是至关重要的。作为经典之作的续作，《挑战幻想纽带》在识别导致偏见、政治分裂和民族冲突的生存恐惧方面尤其具有时代性。

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